Our Best Tips For Using A Strapless Dildo

Want to make strap-on play more intimate with your partner? Try our strapless dildos! These strap-on sex toys were originally made for lesbian couples to engage in mutual penetration and play out their wildest fantasies, but heterosexual couples can also enjoy these dildos with pegging play. Double dildos are designed to give you and your lover more skin-to-skin contact for more intimacy while you’re doing the deed.

The basic design of a strapless strap on toy features a bulb end where one partner controls the dildo by squeezing the bulb with their vaginal muscles while thrusting the dildo end into their partner, whether vaginally or anally. Both you and your lover can get pleasure simultaneously by using a double dildo. Read on to learn more about these creative sex toys and check out the various kinds of strapless dildos to see which ones you would like to add to your own collection:


Tips For Using A Strapless Dildo

To get the most out of your double dildo, try the following effective tips here and make your experience better:

1. Strengthen your Kegel muscles.

The muscles that contract when you orgasm are known as the Kegel muscles, also called the orgasm muscles, sex muscles, vaginal muscles, and more. To use a strapless dildo, you or your partner need to have strong Kegels so that you can properly grip and hold onto the bulb end of the dildo. You can do simple Kegel exercises every day, and all you need to do is squeeze your pelvic muscles in intervals of a few seconds and release; do this for about 10-20 minutes each day. You can also use ben wa balls or Kegel exercisers to help you work out your Kegels.

2. Use long-lasting lubricant for better sex play.

Keep the strapless strap-on dildo and your partner well-lubricated while you engage in penetration play, especially if you’re using the dildo for anal pleasure. It’s best to use a silicone-based lubricant since these types of lube are known for being thick and made to last for a while with minimal reapplication. You can also try a hybrid lubricant that combines both silicone- and water-based lube formulas into one like the After Hours Silicone & Water Hybrid Lubricant.

3. Try stimulating gels for intensified pleasure.

For women, you can use a G-spot-stimulating or clit-stimulating gel for maximum pleasure while your partner uses a strapless dildo on you. Some excellent stimulating gels for women include the Intimate Organics G-Spot Sensitivity Gel and Clitoral Stimulating Gel. If you’re using a strapless strap on with a male partner and engaging in pegging play, try a prostate stimulating gel like the Max G Stimulating Male Sex Prostate Gel to take backdoor stimulation to another level. Find more delightful additions to your sexy fun in our Sex Essentials collection.

4. Add other sex toys to the mix.

If you’re the one doing the pegging or penetrating, get your lover to give you pleasure at the same time with the help of a clitoral vibrator. These handheld sex toys come in a wide range of styles, but they all deliver intense buzzing sensations to the clitoris. You can also add nipple clamps or other nipple toys for exciting and teasing stimulating. If you want to amp up the kink factor in the bedroom and while you use a strapless dildo, explore the BDSM world with our bondage gear, such as blindfolds, handcuffs, and more.


The Best Strapless Dildos To Try

To give you a better idea of the different styles of strapless dildos that we have, here are some of our best-selling ones that you can make a part of your sex routine:


Tantus Feeldoe Stout Vibrating 7 Inch Double Dildo

Thick and long, the 7-inch Tantus Feeldoe is a classic among double dildos. With the angled shaft of the Feeldoe, you can reach your lover’s G-spot or prostate to arouse them more and make them squirm with pleasure. This dildo also features vibrating functions for an extra fun bonus of stimulation.

Love Rider Strapless Strap-On Dildo

Sleek, smooth, and soft, the silicone-made Love Rider strapless dildo is a sensual delight that features a slim and long shaft, which is great for beginners to experience. The head of the shaft is slightly curved to massage the G-spot. This strapless strap on is excellent for couples who want to try one of these innovative sex toys.


Tantus Realdoe Wireless Strap On 7 Inch Double Dildo Vibrator

For a completely lifelike dildo, try the Tantus Realdoe 7-Inch Dildo Vibrator. This strapless dildo boasts a realistic design so that you can give your partner the clone of the real thing for a more personal experience. Shaped with an angled shaft and comes with a bullet vibrator, this double-ended dildo stimulates the G-spot and provides vibrating functions for maximum pleasure.

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